What songs go perfectly with various types of sex? Here’s what J’Adore thinks is the ultimate soundtrack for any situation.
In an ideal world, sex would be meaningful every single time it happens. The passion would never cease and both partners would leave exhausted and fulfilled. Most of us don’t live in that fantasy, though, so we need advice on ways to keep the feeling alive under any circumstance. We start by creating a soundtrack that addresses any sexual situation. Whether entertaining a party of one or fifty, there are songs capable of setting the appropriate mood. We know there are hundreds of others including Motown classics, but we wanted to mix it up with some 21st century singles as well.
MAKING LOVE
What separates making love from other forms of sexual activity is the level of emotion involved. There is an intensity, in which two beings, want to indulge in each other’s company. There is a connection that is as much emotional, as it is physical. Making love can be seen as the moment when sex almost becomes spiritual. You transcend the bed and your two energies become one. For this sexual experience, one has to take the mood into consideration. It’s not about being a forced romantic, but it is about making the other person feel as important as they truly are to you.
Here are some timeless songs for real lovemaking:
- “Secret Garden” by Quincy Jones featuring Al B. Sure, El DeBarge, James Ingram and Barry White
- “I Want You” by Floetry
- “No Ordinary Love” by Sade
- “He Loves Me” by Jill Scott
THE JUMP OFF
There is a time and place for everything: the bedroom, backseat of the car, hotel room, wherever. Jump offs are the perfect time to get it in and then get out. Setting the mood doesn’t have to be involved, but the right soundtrack has the potential to heighten the intensity of the moment. Keep it simple. Both partners acknowledge this isn’t making love. Yet, that is no excuse to not fully enjoy the physicality of the experience. Definitely check out:
- “Bump and Grind” by R. Kelly
- “Meeting In My Bedroom” by Silk
- “Pony” by Ginuwine
- “Bed” by J. Holiday
SELF-SATISFACTION
Welcome to the “solo-flight” terminal. These are the nights that get you through a break-up, celibacy or awful sex with the person that just left. Regardless, it’s perfectly fine to please yourself… and set the mood for it. If possible, try drowning out some of the excessive porn with songs that put you in the zone long enough to knock that urge. Use your imagination and play these:
- “Star*69” by Common
- “Celibacy Thing” by Jill Scott
- “Darling Nikki” by Prince
- “Oh My” by Tweet
GROUP SESSION
Three (or more) may be a crowd, but it can also be fun given the right provisions. If all adults involved are consenting, then let the games begin. This one can be tricky due to making sure all parties feel adequately involved. Spread the love and share the physical resources with these tracks:
- “Spread” by Andre 3000
- “I Kissed A Girl” by Katy Perry
- “All The Things She Said” by T.A.T.U.
- “I’m F-cking You Tonight” by Notorious BIG featuring R. Kelly
ONE NIGHT STAND
That one night. Maybe you will remember it and maybe you won’t. There’s no commitment, just an escapade for a night. Who cares about preparation at that point? Throw on one of these singles and get down to business.
Songs:
- “Drunk and Hot Girls” by Kanye West featuring Mos Def
- “Sensual Seduction” by Snoop Dogg
- “Get You Home” by Foxy Brown featuring Blackstreet
- “Poke Her Face” by Kid Cudi featuring Kanye West, Common and Lady Gaga
In the end, it is what you feel like hearing at that particular point in time, but just make it happen the safe way, folks.
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Your photo, as usual, is amazing! I'm not too familiar with some of these 21st Century song choices, and would prefer to see a list with the Motown classics. There's a reason songs become classics; so lets stick to them.
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